friendship maintenance

I deleted my accounts three years ago. Every single one. Not a dramatic statement—just a quiet decision that the feeds weren't helping me maintain friendships. Three years later, my core friendships are stronger. I didn't…

Common Questions About Long Distance Friendships How often should I check in with friends after moving? There's no universal rule. Weekly texts work for some friendships. Others feel natural with monthly contact. The right frequency is whatever you&…

The Simple Core Most people don't need another app. They need a rhythm they can actually keep. A weekly contact system means picking one day each week and sending a few messages to people you want in your…

My friend from Chicago and I hadn't spoken in eight months. Not because of a fight. We just stopped writing. By the time I thought about messaging her, I felt like I needed a reason to appear in…